Updated: May 4
Design Your Life with Beauty--Find Your Sleep Sweet Spot for Better Sleep
Have you ever felt frustrated with the amount of thoughts that your mind is throwing at you, especially when you’re already feeling stressed or overwhelmed?
Do you feel that when you lie down to sleep your brain goes nuts with countless thoughts streaming endlessly?
You are screaming: Why Am I tired but can't Sleep?
This can be distracting at best. At worst it can:
cause an endless loop of stress and anxiety,
undermine your confidence and optimism and
stop you from finding peace and quiet.
While it isn’t possible to stop your mental chatter completely, there are things you can do to tame it and work with your thoughts, not against them.
Keep these techniques in mind when you need an escape from your mental chatter:
Try using 5-4-3-2-1. When the noise in your head won’t seem to stop, try 5-4-3-2-1. This little exercise will get you out of your head and focused on your environment.
Look around your environment and describe five things you see. For example: “I see a pair of shoes. They are made of brown leather, have a low heel, and rubber soles. They look old.” It’s easy to find five things you see, but the remainder of the exercise is a little more challenging.
Describe four things you hear. “In the distance, I can hear car horns honking.” Really focus your attention on the noises you can hear and fully experience them.
Describe three things you feel. It could be the cool breeze blowing over your skin, the firm chair underneath you, or the pain in your elbow.
Describe two things you smell. You might have to really concentrate to come up with two.
Tell yourself one thing you like, honor and respect about yourself. By the time you’ve finished all five parts of this exercise, your focus will be in the present instead of on the noise in your head.
Avoid engaging with your mental chatter. Your brain is going to make noise. There’s no way to stop it completely. Release it out into the air and let it flow away. View the chatter in your head as nonsense and let it go.
Learn to meditate. Meditation creates a lot of opportunities for dealing with mental noise, because there’s nothing to distract you from it. Learn how to meditate and spend some time each day meditating to calm your mind.
Write it out. Set aside time each day to write down the things you’re randomly thinking. It’s very cathartic and really works if you give it a chance. When feel in your gut that you are done, you can either keep it or toss it.
Use affirmations. Affirmations can improve your life. They also crowd out the noise. When the noise starts, use an affirmation to keep your mind occupied on thoughts that you want. Have a list of affirmations ready to go. Pick one and use it when necessary.
Use a mantra. Using a mantra is the similar to using an affirmation. Your mantra could just be a meaningless sound or something more significant. Convert the noise into peaceful sounds. Powerful mantras can include Sanskrit (the ancient Indian language) with incredible meaning. Check some here. Simple ones can be something like saying "Breathe In, Breathe Out" over and over again. or "OM", or "I am more peaceful every moment". You can choose anything that feels right to you.
Focus on your breathing. Put your attention on your breathing. This is convenient, because it’s always available to you.
Listen to music. Playing music in the background while you work can help to keep in the internal voices at bay. Be careful that you don’t listen to something so distracting that you can’t concentrate on whatever it is that you’re doing. This might take some experimentation and practice.
Your brain creates thoughts. That’s what it’s designed to do. But there are solutions you can employ to reduce the noise and find the peace you need.
Attempting to eliminate your internal voice is a waste of time, but you can greatly reduce the noise and avoid engaging with it.
Practice these methods to reduce or prevent an overabundance of thoughts that you don’t want. Don't be discouraged if things don't work right away. Keep at it until you find what peace you closer to sleep peace and Your Sleep Sweet Spot.
Working with a sleep coach can also be helpful because you can use tools and strategies made just for you.
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